Eve-teasing has been a common occurrence in any country. But following a woman, getting to know what she does, where she stays, and so on, is something that sets them apart. In that process, the person being followed would be totally unaware about it for months. But the stalker’s need grows even more. Such a deep-rooted interest grows stronger in these cases, always takes a bad turn later.
Here's how a so-called 'crazy' ends up making the other person paranoid:
1. Find her on social networks even though she hasn't mentioned her mail ID or where she works or her birthday, then send her lewd messages from a fake profile ofcourse, since your real profile is hard to compromise.
2. Leave her in a confused state letting her wonder if it is really a stalker who is messing with her or just a friend playing pranks.
(She ends up blocking you, ofcourse.)
3. Create a new fake profile, introduce some vulgar lines or mention what she wore that day, tell her you followed her to a library or a movie theater.
4. Ask her to wear saree the next day, cuz you have to insist on finding a way to control her; this in turn leaves her shocked, lets her wonder how you know her whereabouts or what she wore that day.
5. Never ever come in person to let her know that you exist. Take her number from the office database and start messaging her there. It is her official number, so ofcourse she replies, take this as an acceptance from her side to eve-tease her even more.
At the price of his own job, the mystery man would continue to send vulgar messages, she'd continue to block him or delete her social media profile entirely.
From the many number of stalkers I've realised that they look at only one thing: the girl's face. Nothing else is important for such disgusting low lives. She can be fat or slim or whatever. She just needs to be a girl and have a symmetric face. That's enough for them to continue sending vulgar messages. Be it a guy staring at you in a train or something... He will always wait for you to look at him or his side once, and thats enough for such minds to think that we are interested in them. Such nauseating minds make women think that men are all such creeps. When such horrible things can happen in big offices, more terrible things happen when these creatures are suddenly put in cities.
Staring at co-workers is such a harrasment as serious as stalking and this is an unfortunate reality in workplaces. Some men do lingering stares on women that's very common and there is no way of avoiding such instances. When they follow that one woman in the pretext of going for a walk themselves, no one can prove that she is being followed. Atleast they could do the courtesy of stopping the stare once the opposite party notices but such crazy dogs like M. Balaji, The Hindu web developer anyway belong in jail. Women's committee to the rescue!
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